Gerund or Inf and Friendship

Phoebe is a sweet-natured but odd guitar player. She is often very dim-witted, sometimes smart and is in some regards still a child at heart. She believed Santa Claus existed, until Joey told her otherwise. She is always kind and helpful. Some people may find it strange but she does proove to be a good friend.

While Monica is kind, caring and friendly, she is also notorious for her obsessive cleanliness. She is also known to talk abnormally loudly and for her bossiness and unnatural organizational skills. Aside from being a neat-freak, Monica can also be bossy and quite competitive, hating to lose.

Rachel's personality evolves somewhat over the series. Early on, she is portrayed as a spoiled girl. She can often be self-centered, but is often sweet and tries to be a good friend. Later on in the series, she becomes much less self-absorbed. She is determined to and wants to be independent. She was always there for her friends and was respected by them. Rachel also displays a witty, snarky and sarcastic side to her personality.

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1. Because of your laz__, we'll never get finished in time.
2. I must say, I find your attitude a little sur__.
3. He really does play the piano beaut__.
4. She's far too clever. She does everything annoy__ well.
5. We have to solve this problem fast. We need to think creat__.
6. He never even gave me a birthday card and that sad__ me.
7. Take two of these tablets. It'll help to eas__ the pain.
8. They spent a very pleas__ hour in the park walking and talking.
9. I've eaten John's cake, but hop__ he won't notice!

Complete the word families chart.

1. She insisted ...
2. My mother wonders ...
3. Tom advised me ...
4. I don't mind ...
5. We blame ...
6. They thank us ...

Make up your own sentences

1. She always relies on her best friend for help with difficult decisions.
2. They decided to travel the world together after retiring early.
3. I know I can always rely on my family for support in times of need.
4. He was meant to become famous, but he gave up.
5. The charity provides volunteers for those requiring help in the local community.
6. I'm always by your side whenever you need it.

Rephrase the given sentences

• Loyal: Good friends stay even when everyone else has left
• Accepting: A good friend doesn’t judge you for being different
• Honest: Good friends let you see reality as it is
• Caring: A good friend will remind you to be good to yourself
• Positive: Good friends can help you love life more
• Inspiring: A good friend teaches you how to become a better person
• Patient: Good friends will be there – even when you’re at your worst
• Comforting: Good friends make you feel safe and sound
• Supportive: A good friend believes in your potential to achieve your goals
• Committed: A good friend will always be in your life no matter what

Rank these qualities in order of importance and justify your choices

4. Good friends tell each other the truth. If your friend asks you if their new haircut looks good, don't lie. But remember to be kind. There's a big difference between saying 'I'm not sure it really suits you' and 'You look terrible'. 5. The best thing about having friends is doing things together. Whether it's going to the cinema, playing football or just hanging out, make sure you have fun together. It's also important to be able to laugh at yourself. If you can't enjoy a joke at your own expense, you'll find it hard to enjoy a joke at your friend's expense, too. Enjoying each other's company and ... ... ... together is what true friendship is all about. So what's the most important thing about friendship? That's easy - be a good friend. If you're always be there for your friends and they can count on you, you'll have great friends for life.

1. Be honest - but not too honest
2. Choose your friends wisely
3. Don't forget your friends
4. Be there for your friends
5. Have fun together

What is a friend? Most of us would say that a friend is someone who's ... ... you when you need them, someone who makes you laugh and someone you can trust. But what else do you need to know about being a good friend? 1. Some people say that you are the average of the five people you spend most time with. So if you want to be successful, make sure you choose successful friends. But it's also important to have friends who are different from you. They can ... you to new ideas and help you see things from a different perspective. 2. If a friend calls you at 3 a.m. because he's upset, you should probably answer the phone. If you're not free, call them back as soon as possible. If a friend is ill, visit him in hospital. A good friend should alsways be by your side when you need him. 3. When life gets busy, it's easy to forget to call or catch up with friends. But don't wait until you have time - make time! Even if you can only meet for a coffee or a quick chat on the phone, it's important to let your friends know that you're thinking about them. You can ... on your friends to be there for you, so make sure you to ... them as well.

A Guide to Friendship

What opinion do you agree with?

Jessica Hi, Andy. You don't seem too happy! Andy Oh, it's Tom. I know he's a friend, but he can be really annoying sometimes. Jessica What do you mean? Andy Well, he never asks about what I'm doing. 'He's always talking about his life and what he's going to do, but he doesn't care about anyone else! Jessica Yes, l've noticed that he never takes an interest in other people. Are you going to do anything about it? Andy What can I do? That's the personality he's got. Jessica Next time you see him, tell him that it annoys you. I'll tell him if you want because it irritates me too! Andy Perhaps I should, because 'his attitude is really putting me off him. If he can't change his behaviour, then I don't see how we can stay friends. Our first lesson tomorrow is English. I'll speak to him then. Jessica Good idea. If he's really a good friend, he won't get angry. Andy Well, thanks for your advice. I'm playing football this evening, and it looks like it's going to rain, so I'd better go home and pick up my waterproofs. See you. Jessica OK. Good luck with Tom!

Which of the faults in exercise 1 does Andy complain about? Do you agree with the advice Jessica gives Andy? Why? / Why not? (1.02)

Someone who:

• checks their mobile phone all the time.
• always arrives late when meeting friends.
• interrupts people all the time.
• borrows things, but never returns them.
• always talks about himself/herself.

Look at the list of annoying habits. What annoys you the most? What can be added to the list? Do you do these things?

Choose the correct option. What do these sentences mean?

1. Stefan is going camping a next week. b every summer. 2. Have you decided what time a you're going out? b you go out? 3. Tom is always talking a when the TV's on! b clearly. 4. Can you give this to Ben next time a you're seeing him? b you see him? 5. l always a cycle to school. b am cycling to school. 6. Do you play basketball a this Saturday? b every Saturday?

5 You _ where you've put your keys! a always forget b are always forgetting 6 Our English teacher _ from Manchester. a is coming b comes 7 I'll see you after the lesson _a finishes b is finishing

1. 'Have you got any plans for this evening?" I _ with Vicky.' a 'm going out b go out 2 My flight_ at five, so we need to be at the airport a good two hours before that. a 's leaving b leaves 3 Jack basketball every week. a isn't playing b doesn't play 4 It seems that the Earth's climate _ hotter. a is getting b gets

Complete the sentences

1. How important is it to insist on being honest in friendships?
2. Do you often mention your friends talking to others?
3. Have you ever wondered about your future with a close friend?
4. Do you tend to blame your friends for misunderstanding or conflicts?
5. Have you ever ended up arguing with a friend over a trivial matter?
6. When was the last time you advised a friend on a difficult situation they were facing?
7. How do you decide when to talk to a friend about them being rude?
8. Is it easy for you to apologise for mistakes in your friendships?

Let's Discuss These Questions!

Write her a letter and answer her 3 questions. Write 100–120 words. Remember the rules of letter writing.

From: Emily@mail.uk To: Russian_friend@oge.ru Subject: Friends …Oh, my friend is so charming! Everybody in the class is ready to help her. But, you know, I sometimes think she’s just using people to get what she wants. …What kind of person is your best friend? When and where did you meet? How do you spend time together?…

You have received an email message from your English-speaking pen-friend Emily:

1. Not Given - Maybe the author defines a friend as someone who is always available for a chat, there is no information in the text to either prove or disprove that.
2. False - Exaggerates the idea mentioned in the text, misrepresenting the factual data.
3. False - This statement implies that the text advises ignoring friends' calls at 3 a.m., but the text actually says you should answer the phone.
4. Not Given - Maybe people will always remember to call or meet up with friends, there is no information in the text to either prove or disprove that.
5. False - This statement contradicts the factual information provided in the text - the text says that good friends tell each other the truth.
6. True
7. Not Given - Maybe the author believes that the most important thing about friendship is to always be available for social events, there is no information in the text to either prove or disprove that.
8. False - Exaggerates the idea mentioned in the text, misrepresenting the factual data.
9. True
10. Not Given - Maybe true friendship involves travelling the world together, there is no information in the text to either prove or disprove that.

1. The author defines a friend as someone who is always available for a chat.
2. The text suggests that you should choose your friends randomly.
3. The text suggests that you should ignore your friend's calls at 3 a.m.
4. The author suggests that people will always remember to call or meet up with friends.
5. Good friends always lie to each other.
6. The most enjoyable part of having friends is engaging in activities together.
7. The author believes that the most important thing about friendship is to always be available for social events.
8. If you're never there for your friends, you'll have great friends for life.
9. Being able to find humour in oneself is crucial.
10. The author suggests that true friendship involves travelling the world together.

True, fasle or Not Stated