Toxicor not Toxic
Your couple wants to travel alone with friends, but you had plans. Do you:
Get angry and pressure them to change their mind
Say you're sad but understand, and suggest another plan for you two
Say nothing but feel resentful
+1 Point!
+3 Points!
+2 Points!
Your couple goes out with friends and doesn't reply for hours. Do you:
Keep messaging and calling them non-stop
Trust they'll reply when they can and enjoy your own time
Get upset and give them the silent treatment
+1 Points!
+2 Points!
+3 Points!
Your date dislikes a habit of yours (for example, video games)
Constantly criticize them and force them to change
Talk calmly about how it affects you and find a compromise
Ignore it but complain to your friends
+1 Points!
+2 Points!
+3 Points!
For your anniversary, your couple gives you a handmade gift with effort, but it's not expensive. Do you:
Thank them sincerely, valuing the thought
Pretend to like it but secretly want something else
Show disappointment, expecting something more valuable
+3 Points!
+2 Points!
+1 Points!
Your couple wants to start a new habit, like exercising. Do you:
Offer support and join your partner sometimes when they exercise
Don't say anything, but secretly hope that he fails the exercise.
Discourage him or mock his attempts.
+3 Points!
+2 Points!
+1 Points!
Your couple is stressed with studies/work and needs to focus. Do you
Demand his attention and get angry if he can't spend time with you.
Offer help or give them space and encourage them.
Ignore his stress and keep asking him to do things.
+3 Points!
+1 Points!
+1 Points!
Count your points!!
If you have 13 points or more: This is considered a “Green Flag.” This means that the person tends to have healthy behaviors and attitudes in relationships. You shouldn't change this behaviour
You are not toxic!!!
If you have 12 points or less: This is considered a “Red Flag.” This indicates that there are behaviors that could be toxic or problematic in a relationship. You should change your behaviour
You are toxic!!!
Toxic or not Toxic
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Toxicor not Toxic
Your couple wants to travel alone with friends, but you had plans. Do you:
Get angry and pressure them to change their mind
Say you're sad but understand, and suggest another plan for you two
Say nothing but feel resentful
+1 Point!
+3 Points!
+2 Points!
Your couple goes out with friends and doesn't reply for hours. Do you:
Keep messaging and calling them non-stop
Trust they'll reply when they can and enjoy your own time
Get upset and give them the silent treatment
+1 Points!
+2 Points!
+3 Points!
Your date dislikes a habit of yours (for example, video games)
Constantly criticize them and force them to change
Talk calmly about how it affects you and find a compromise
Ignore it but complain to your friends
+1 Points!
+2 Points!
+3 Points!
For your anniversary, your couple gives you a handmade gift with effort, but it's not expensive. Do you:
Thank them sincerely, valuing the thought
Pretend to like it but secretly want something else
Show disappointment, expecting something more valuable
+3 Points!
+2 Points!
+1 Points!
Your couple wants to start a new habit, like exercising. Do you:
Offer support and join your partner sometimes when they exercise
Don't say anything, but secretly hope that he fails the exercise.
Discourage him or mock his attempts.
+3 Points!
+2 Points!
+1 Points!
Your couple is stressed with studies/work and needs to focus. Do you
Demand his attention and get angry if he can't spend time with you.
Offer help or give them space and encourage them.
Ignore his stress and keep asking him to do things.
+3 Points!
+1 Points!
+1 Points!
Count your points!!
If you have 13 points or more: This is considered a “Green Flag.” This means that the person tends to have healthy behaviors and attitudes in relationships. You shouldn't change this behaviour
You are not toxic!!!
If you have 12 points or less: This is considered a “Red Flag.” This indicates that there are behaviors that could be toxic or problematic in a relationship. You should change your behaviour
You are toxic!!!