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RELEASE #4

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About the Creators of In Her Shoes®

This online journey was created with the permission of the Washington State Coalition Against Domestic Violence (WSCADV), the original creators of In Her Shoes®. WSCADV is the leading voice to end domestic violence in Washington State. They work to improve how communities respond to survivors and to create a world where all people can live and love without fear. In Her Shoes® is a groundbreaking experiential learning tool that helps participants understand the complex choices faced by people in abusive relationships. It is used in over 900 communities across the United States to educate professionals and the public about domestic violence.

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Sierra's Journey

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Sierra's Journey

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DAWNPRESENTS...

IN HER SHOES®...

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IN HER SHOES...

Sierra's Journey

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RELEASE 4

Last time, Sierra made the difficult decision to return home, hoping her husband would be calm and that things might be different. The choice carries both hope and fear—an uneasy balance that weighs heavily as she steps back into familiar walls. This week, her path forward is filled with difficult choices and uncertain turns. Each decision brings new risks, new questions, and the weight of consequences that are never simple. This next step in Sierra’s journey will test her strength and reveal what awaits behind the door she’s chosen to reopen.

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BACK HOME AGAIN - CARD #2

Well, I was wrong. He is furious that I left.

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ABUSE HAPPENS CARD #3

He’s standing in the doorway and won’t let me pass. He says, “You don’t live here anymore!” The kids are already in the house and I say, “Fine, give me the children and I’ll leave.” He says, “NO" The Indian Child Welfare Act says they have to be raised on the reservation and therefore only "YOU" are leaving. He pushes me out of the doorway, I trip and he kicks me and walks back into the house.

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What choice should Sierra make?

COURT CARD #1 (If you want custody of your kids)

FRIENDS AND FAMILY CARD #3 (If you want to talk with your elders)

FRIENDS & FAMILY CARD #3

You are very confused about the laws. You don’t think that he ban keep your kids. You want to stay on the reservation but you don’t want to see him all the time. You decide to talk to your elders again. You explain that you are very concerned about your kids. The elders agree that men need to respect women and that what your husband is going through is not okay. One family friend seriously encourages you to go to the tribal court and get information. Another person thinks you should try to get your own housing first, then go to the tribal court for protective order.

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What choice should Sierra make?

COURT CARD #1 (If you want custody of your kids)

HOUSING CARD #1 (If you want to look for a new place to live)

HOUSING CARD #1

You ask around to see if anyone you know is renting an apartment or small house. You are having a problem getting enough money together. You are thrilled to find out that your job is willing to give you an advance so you can have enough money for the security deposit and for all the locks and security items you want to feel safe.

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COURT CARD #1

You have no idea what this will be like. You have never been to the court. You are very surprised to find out that your husband has already been there to apply for custody of your kids. You can’t believe it! That’s it!! You’re going to fight him and get your children so they can be raised in a family they can be proud of. You decide to look for a new place to live with your children.

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RELEASE #4

This week, your choices guided Sierra to seek support once again—whether through friends and family or directly at the courthouse. Both paths have now led her to court, where the next stage of her journey begins. You’ve reached the end of this week’s release. Come back next week to continue the walk in her shoes and make the next choices in Sierra’s story.

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