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8. The impact of communication

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I am Brainy and I am here to guide you through this activity. First, a short quiz will be presented to discover what you know about the topic we will discuss.

Next, you will watch a video, prepared by experts, which will help you deepen your understanding of the key concepts.

Finally, a second quiz will allow you to check everything you have learned, accompanied by a series of tips to help you implement these educational tools.

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The impact of communication

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Here is a 10 question quiz that invites you to reflect on the impact of how you communicate with your child.

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What are the possible consequences of the labels assigned to a child?

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What is the main impact of cognitive biases on our perception of children?

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What are the possible effects of the labels 'shy' or "lazy" on a child's behavior?

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What are the positive effects of well-phrased criticism on a child?

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What is the impact ofparents' perception on their children's behavior?

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What strategies can help parents reduce cognitive biases?

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What are appropriate methods to help a child improve?

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What strategies can help avoid hasty judgments about a child's behavior?

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Which times of the day can be influenced by biases in our decisions with our children?

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What are the possible consequences of the Pygmalion effect?

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summary

Hasty Judgements

Self-esteem

Expectations

Unconscious Influence

Unfair labels

Encouragements

Pygmalion Effect

Constructive Criticism

Tips and Recommendations

Avoid Labels

Be mindful of stereotypes and generalizations

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Encourage with positive and specific words

Reflect on your expectations

Practice active listening

Rephrase Difficult Situations Positively

Rephrase Difficult Situations Positively

Strengthen Positive Behaviors and Progress

Create a Reassuring and Supportive Environment

Adopt a Curious Attitude

Online Resources

"Your body language may shape who you are" - Amy Cuddy (TED Talk)

Nonviolent Communication (NVC) – Marshall Rosenberg

Activity: Active Listening Practice (from the Positive Discipline approach)

TEDx Talk - "The Power of Vulnerability" by Brené Brown

Parenting Science – Effective Communication with Kids

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See you soon for new challenges!

Unfair labels

Labels not only influence the child's perception but also how they behave, often creating self-fulfilling prophecies.

Unconscious influence

Cognitive biases allow our brain to process information quickly, but they can distort our perception of reality.

For example, if your child is restless, ask yourself if they are tired, frustrated, or need more movement. This will help you be more empathetic and better respond to their needs.

Parenting Science – Effective Communication with Kids

This site offers evidence-based information on parenting, including strategies for effective communication with kids. Topics include understanding your child's developmental stages and how to tailor your language and responses accordingly. Why it’s helpful: It provides parents with practical, research-backed strategies for adjusting their language and approach depending on their child’s age, emotional state, and developmental needs.

Reinforce positive behaviors and progress

Tip : Notice even small victories. If your child improves, praise their efforts... "You didn't give up and kept trying, even when it was difficult. That’s perseverance!" This fosters a growth mindset, where the child believes they can improve.

TEDx Talk - "The Power of Vulnerability" by Brené Brown

In this TEDx talk, Brené Brown explores the importance of vulnerability in communication. She explains how being open, authentic, and emotionally honest can improve our connections with others, including children and teens. Why it’s helpful: This talk can inspire parents to model vulnerability and openness in their communication, making it easier for their children and teens to do the same and build more genuine relationships.

Encouragements

Pay attention to the child's emotions and offer specific encouragements to strengthen their self-esteem and help them develop in a caring environment.

Rephrase difficult situations positively

Tip : If your child is going through a difficult situation (for example, an argument with a peer or a poor grade), rephrase it positively to help them become aware of their strengths. "You received a lower grade this time, but you learned that maybe you need to review this subject a bit more. How can we help you improve together?"

Self-esteem

Constructively criticizing (focusing on behaviors rather than the child) helps maintain a good self-esteem in the child. Valuing effort is an essential practice for adopting a growth mindset and achieving optimal personal development.

Avoid labels

Tip : Instead of reacting immediately to a behavior that annoys you, take a break and ask yourself if you have understood what motivates this behavior. For example, if your child is restless, ask yourself if they are tired, frustrated, or need more movement. This will help you be more empathetic and better respond to their needs.

Create a reassuring and caring environment

Tip : Show them that mistakes are part of learning. When the child fails, encourage them to see the mistake as a step toward learning, for example: "It's okay, you learned from this experience, and next time, you'll do better."

Rephrase difficult situations positively

Tip : When you need to comment on behavior, focus not on the child itself, but on what they can do differently. For example, instead of saying "You're bad at math," try "You had difficulty with this math exercise, but I know you can succeed with a little more practice. We can do it together."

Practice active listening

Tip : When your child speaks, listen to them without interrupting, even if what they are saying seems less important to you. Show them that you are listening by using gestures or words such as, “I understand what you're saying,” or “You seem frustrated, do you want to talk about it?” This builds trust and strengthens your bond with your child.

Encourage with positive and specific words

Tip : Tip: Show them that mistakes are part of learning. When the child fails, encourage them to see the error as a step towards learning. For example: "That's good, you've learned from this experience, and next time, you'll do better."

Reflect on your expectations

Tip : Identify if your expectations for your child are realistic and suitable for their age and development. If you expect a young child to behave very calmly for an hour, it may be unrealistic. Adjust your expectations to your child's actual abilities and encourage them in their gradual efforts.

Adopt an attitude of curiosity

Tip : Instead of reacting immediately to behavior that annoys you, take a break and ask yourself if you have understood what motivates this behavior. For example, if your child is restless, ask yourself if they are tired, frustrated, or need more movement. This will help you be more empathetic and better respond to their needs.

Hasty judgments

Taking a step back before judging a child's behavior can help avoid hasty judgments.

Activity: Active Listening Practice (from the Positive Discipline approach)

Practice active listening by setting aside moments to focus entirely on what your child is saying. During conversations, repeat back what you heard and ask clarifying questions to show you understand. Use phrases like, "What I hear you saying is..." or "Can you tell me more about that?" Why it’s helpful: Active listening allows children and teens to feel heard and respected. This fosters trust and can improve communication during difficult conversations or conflicts.

Expectations

Labels create expectations, and the child may end up conforming to this image, which can limit their development.

"Your body language may shape who you are" - Amy Cuddy (TED Talk)

In her TED talk, Amy Cuddy explains how body language affects our confidence and self-perception. Holding “power poses” for two minutes can boost feelings of power and reduce stress. These poses can help improve performance in situations like job interviews or presentations. Although some studies question the hormonal effects, posture remains important for personal confidence.

Constructive Criticism

Providing constructive criticism by focusing on behavior is an effective way to help a child improve.

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Be careful with stereotypes and generalizations

Tip : Don’t assume that your child has a fixed ability or character. For example, don’t say "You’re never ready on time" if your child struggles to be ready in the morning. Instead, notice the efforts and progress in this activity. Say: "You did well dressing yourself, but you lost time with your bag. What if you prepared it the night before? You’d be more relaxed in the morning; shall we do it together tonight?

Pygmalion Effect

The Pygmalion effect shows that if a parent or educator has positive expectations toward a child, it can actually improve their behavior and performance.

Nonviolent Communication (NVC) – Marshall Rosenberg

This site offers resources on Nonviolent Communication (NVC), a communication approach developed by Marshall Rosenberg. NVC emphasizes empathy, active listening, and expressing feelings without blame or judgment. Why it’s helpful: NVC helps parents develop strategies to communicate with their children and teens in a calm, non-confrontational way, which is especially valuable during disagreements or moments of emotional tension.