MY HERO'S JORUNEY

My Journey

From Comfort to the Trials of Independence

Careful!

Known World

The Decision

Enter at your own risk

The Trials

Plutus

Chronos

Echidna

The Support Team

Family

Girlfriend

Friends

Return and Consecration: A New Person

It won't be easy

However, I was unaware of the magnitude of the challenges ahead. I imagined independence would be exciting and liberating, but I hadn’t prepared myself for the responsibilities and emotional toll of living alone in an unfamiliar city at such a young age. The decision was daunting but necessary; it symbolized my departure from the known world into the unknown.

Who was I before?

Before university, my life in high school was a rollercoaster of emotions. I was popular, surrounded by friends, and highlighted socially, but the pandemic abruptly halted my momentum. My personal growth stagnated during what could have been my peak, leaving me with insecurities that I carried into adulthood.

What's next?

When the time came to choose my next step, I reflected deeply on what I wanted for myself. My hometown offered very little room for professional growth, and I longed for a fresh start. Moving to Querétaro for university was my call to adventure—a decision to leave behind everything I knew in pursuit of personal and professional development

Chronos

The relentless monster of time. Managing my schedule, balancing classes, and allocating time for personal responsibilities felt overwhelming. Procrastination, distractions, and laziness often got the better of me, leaving me frustrated and behind on tasks.

Plutus

The God of wealth but also, the master of money problems, was the second monster. Learning how to manage my finances was no fun, and it was very trying. I had to prioritize necessities, cut unnecessary expenses, and make every peso count. There were times when even the simplest pleasures felt like luxuries I couldn’t afford.

Echidna

The monster of loneliness. Moving away meant leaving behind my support system. I missed my family, friends, and the sense of belonging that came with being home. It was a constant battle to remind myself why I left and to find comfort in the things that seemed very unfamiliar for me

My family, though far away, was a very good source of encouragement. I lived with my cousin during my first semester, and this was a stabilizing force that I desperately needed. Having a familiar figure close to me, even if it was for a brief time, was really helpful.

My friends, even though they were far away, showed their support and I slowly let them back in into my life.I became determined to show myself I could accomplish what I set my mind to, and with my family, friends, and girlfriend support, I started facing challenges with positivity and resilience.

I unexpectedly met my girlfriend, and she very quickly became a very important figure in my life, but she didn't force herself into it. She entered in the smoothest of ways and when I least expected it. She helped me see my own worth only with her presence; she believed in me, and that was enough for me to realize I have to keep going.

Slowly, I began to adapt. I learned to manage my time, stick to a budget, and open myself up to new friendships. I realized that every challenge I faced was an opportunity for growth. The struggles that once seemed like monsters became milestones in my journey toward self-discovery.

Reaching the end of my third year of university, I understand how far I’ve come. Though painful, the challenges I overcame made me a stronger person. I’ve learned to leave the past behind, have faith in my capabilities and made peace with growth struggles. I am proud to say that I didn’t succumb to the urge to go home. Though it was one of the most difficult decisions I’ve ever made, staying in Querétaro helped me create a life that aligns with my dreams. Now going back home always feels like a blessing, but I do have very clear that my life has grown apart from that and that I am now a true independent self.